Just because she's nice to you doesn't mean she wants to fuck you.
I have to tell myself that every day. It's pathetic, I know, but true.
Does this happen to other guys? A girl chooses to speak to you, she seems to think you're OK, and you assume she's just dying to get into your pants?
That assumption will fill my mind for a few minutes, in there I can see our glorious future together, and then suddenly I am back in the real world. I realise that nothing like that is ever going to happen between us. Nothing at all is ever going to happen between us.
The real world isn't nearly as interesting as my dream world. In that world I'm irresistable.
Hope is a dangerous thing.