While I was attending a relaxation and meditation seminar, we were encouraged to
take what the speaker had shown us and come up with our own form of deep muscle
relaxation. This is what I ended up with, thanks to the guidance and teaching of
Dr. Terry. It works very well for me. You can change it to suit your needs
as you see fit.
With your eyelids partially closed, adopt an attitude of passive volition.
Let it happen. Assume the "rag doll" ¹ posture while
laying on the floor. If your mind wanders, gently bring it back but don't
be concerned about it.
15 steps to deep muscle relaxation
- Allow the room and to become quiet. Do your best to get very
comfortable. Focus on your breathing, letting it gradually slow down.
- Let each breath become slower and deeper. As you do, let your mind focus
on the air as it comes in and as it goes back out. Let all the air out so
you can take deeper, slower breaths. Become aware of your body and how it
feels.
- As your awareness deepens, become aware of your right
hand. Notice how it feels. Keeping all the other body muscles
relaxed, make a white knuckle fist with your right hand. Hold it for three
to five seconds. Sense the tension building and then let it go. Feel
the tension leaving. Repeat this several times. Note the difference
as your hand becomes relaxed and loose. Feel the relaxation.
- Gradually move up the arm. Focus and bend your
wrist. (Follow the same procedure as in step "1"). Then move to the
bicep, bending it, and the tricep pushing your arm down into the floor each time
following the procedure described in step "a".
Now shift your attention to your left hand, keeping all
other body muscles relaxed. Repeat the procedure with the left hand and
arm that you used in step "1". You are doing very well. Feel the
area as it gets peaceful, smooth and comfortable.
- Now shift your attention to your left hand, keeping all
other body muscles relaxed. Repeat the procedure with the left hand and
arm that you used in step "1". You are doing very well. Feel the
area as it gets peaceful, smooth and comfortable.
- Take a moment to sense both hands and arms. Note
the nice, relaxed, smooth feeling.
- Now shift your attention to your right foot.
Keeping all other body muscled relaxed, pull your right foot and toes back
towards you. Hold this for three to five seconds. You should be able
to sense the tension building. Let it go. Sense the tension leaving.
Repeat this several times. Noting the difference as your foot becomes
loose and relaxed, feel the deep relaxation.
- Gradually move up your leg. Focus on the bend in your ankle,.
following the same procedure as in "5". Move to the knee (bending) and
hips (tightening the muscles in your (buttocks), then to the small
of your back (arching). Each time, follow the procedure as you did in step
"5".
- Repeat this procedure with the left foot and knee muscles as you did in step
"6".
- Take a moment to sense both feet and legs. Notice the nice feeling of the deep relaxation.
- Now shift your attention to your abdomen. Keeping all other body
muscles relaxed, pull all your abdomen muscles in tightly as feel
your organs tense. Hold for three to five seconds until you sense the
tension building. Then let your abdomen relax while feeling the tension
flowing out and the relaxation flowing in. Repeat this several times.
- Now shift your attention to your chest. Inhale
deeply. Follow the same procedure as you did in step "9".
- Now shift your attention to your back. Notice how
it feels. Keeping all other body muscles relaxed and your breathing calm
and regular, pull your shoulders straight back while gently arching your upper
back, and allow your abdomen and pelvis to move forward. Hold for three to
five seconds until you sense the tension building. Then relax your back as
you feel the tension flowing out and the deep relaxation flowing in. Let
your entire body be loose and limp, heavy, and relaxed.
- Now shift your attention to your neck. Raise your
head. Feel the tension in your neck. Hold this for three to five
seconds. Quickly, let it go. You will notice the tension flowing out
of your neck.
- Now without opening your eyes fully, raise your eyebrows. Feel the
tension all the way to the top of your scalp. Let it go. Sense the
relaxed and peaceful feeling.
- Now frown, pulling your eyebrows together. Make
wrinkles as deep as you can. Repeat this several times. Let it go
and feel the wave of relaxation all the way down to your toes.
- Once again, review your body. Make sure you like each part. Be very relaxed.
- The final step is to count slowly from one to five. On the count of
five, take a deep breath. On the inhale say: "my mind is alert and
wide awake". Open your eyes widely. Exhale saying: "relaxed and
refreshed". Gently stretch all of your muscles. Then slowly get up
feeling alert and very refreshed.
1 Relax your body. Slow down and let go! Systematically relax all
parts of your body - so you become like a rag doll. Go floppy. Doing this
replaces the normal tendency to try to fight the sensations by tensing your
muscles or ‘freezing’.
Terry M.D.,
Dr. Jonathon. "Exploring relaxation and meditation.." . , . 10 May 2004.